[A Balrog of Morgoth]

Now, the Glenview woman wants him to provide child support and college fund and pay medical expenses

OK, I guess you could make an argument for child support, but

College Fund?
Medical Expenses?
WTF? Heck, why not house and car payments too? Maybe the guy ought to sue for custody.

[Orlando]

Sounds like pre planing to me

[John O]

Maybe the guy ought to sue for custody.

Exactly the right thing to do. If she really wants the kids this gives him a lever to avoid the situation "OK I won't sue for custody but since I never wanted these kids anyway you sign this notarized document releasing me from any involvement in their lives in any way now or in the future". If she's just using the kids as a meal ticket then she doesn't get anything else from him. Call her bluff so to speak.