You have completely misunderstood, Slip18. You assert that the three words are in the essay; the author says they are NOT in the essay (from the end of the essay: "...three words I will not share here in this piece").
Capiche?? Should we take your word over the author's?
"I will not share in this piece." It was a long, informative missive, yes, but "this piece" may not be part of the essay.