Many Christian dating/courtship books give women and girls the notion that they are a gift of high worth to their future husbands, but not the other way around. The attitude is, "You are bestowing a favor on him," and they carry this attitude into marriage.
I totally agree with your comment. Most women are taught that they are such a prize and never taught that they were created simply to be a help to a man.
From my experience I can understand the old adage: "My ex and I broke up for religious reasons. She thought she was "God" but I disagreed."