I know the Bible.
Apparently not well enough. You are the one who wrote:
"I think her husband was just as much to blame as she was. After all the husband is the head of the home as Christ is the Church. And women are to submit."
Nowhere does the Bible say that women are to submit to a self centered lunatic like her husband. He neither protected nor respected her or his kids by his inactions. He is not the husband that St. Paul talks about being the "head"