You realize that Andrea Yates wanted to stop having children but her husband kept insisting that doing God's will was to keep having them. Too, her husband also felt it was unGodly for her to keep taking her psych meds which were prescribed to her. She was off her meds when she murdered the kids.
I think her husband was just as much to blame as she was. After all the husband is the head of the home as Christ is the Church. And women are to submit.
You sound like a misguided feminist.
Yates was sane enough to call the cops after she finished killing off the last of the kids. She was sane enough to get a degree. In fact, Andrea is a symptom of a sick society...one that allows women unilaterally to kill its preborn.
Here are 2 sources in helping you understand the Christian relationship between husbands and wives.
http://www.family.org/married/comm/a0019596.cfm
http://www.family.org/married/comm/a0019596.cfm