And his mom, sure.
Women don't typically understand male sexuality. Women will be all up in arms about this, and will be offended by the 'typical' male take on this as "this kid was just lucky".
But boys and girls are different, and in my opinion this kid was not a victim.
I'm a male, and I've never understood guys who haven't got an eye out for a wife, to whom they will be sexually faithful. This kid has the deck stacked against him in that department.
And I'll have to say that infantile attitudes like yours do nothing to help him learn to act like a man.