I'm a male, and I've never understood guys who haven't got an eye out for a wife, to whom they will be sexually faithful. This kid has the deck stacked against him in that department.
And I'll have to say that infantile attitudes like yours do nothing to help him learn to act like a man.
Um -- because I believe he should be held accountable for his actions here?
I'm thinking you have read your own biases into what I'm saying.
Somehow, I don't think you've heard my point. Maybe I'm not stating it clearly enough?
The boy is no 'victim', any more than drug buyers are victims.