[YankeeGirl]

but let's be honest: a 14-year old boy seduced by an older woman is much less a victim than a 14-year old boy or girl seduced by a man. Its just reality.

Maybe in your universe. I have a 14 year old son. If one of his teachers or a friends' mom had sex with him I'd be pressing charges too. I don't consider myself to be a prude in matters of sex.

It the fact that one's a kid and one's an adult. That's disgusting and illegal whether its hetero or homo.

[dinoparty]

The question is: Would you be more upset if you had a 14-year old girl molested by a male teacher than if your 14 year old boy had sex with a female teacher. I bet you would.

[Abathar]

But who would you blame, the adult or your son? I don't think the boy did anything wrong, as a guy most (95+%) would have gladly let her victimize us at that age, probably more than once and with a big smile on our faces. Place the blame squarely where it belongs, on the adult.