indeed...my flames the past 30 years have been all over the board
but if I were single now at 48, I would not tolerate a ballbuster now matter how hot...life is too short and i am way traditional
i would advise younger (within reason ..say 5-15 years) are easier too....I know I will burn in hell for my candid advice but hey....i'm just laying out the path of least resistance to fellow milkstools.
People who you would describe as ball busters probably don't even like themselves.