Biblically, we are taught that sex bonds a couple. It is a covenant relationship. So it's not surprising that women have a greater response to sex than men, yes, even casual sex.
But the feminists have so glossed over this and taught the exact opposite (think of Helen Gurley Brown here) and it just goes against the intricate nature of women that God imbued us with.
Did you ever watch "The Muppet Show"? They had a character "gargling Gershwin." THAT would be a great Pelosi soundbyte!
Trying to turn human nature on its head will not, in the end, work.