I was once married to one like this. This woman will never turn this loose and, even after it's settled, she'll find a way to sue the lawyer who represents her. It goes on forever. I know. I've been divorced from mine since 1994 and I still hear about the people who have offended her and how she's going to get them. She went through 3 lawyers during our divorce because the lawyers kept firing her as a client. These medications are a dangerous balancing act.
Boy, I feel for you. It’s hard to believe you’re still sane. I work in a law office and honestly, most of our non-business (female) clients are on some kind of psycho-type meds. These people are actually basically, most of them, good people and can’t see how screwed up they are and if they’d just get off the meds they’d have a lot better life. Those drugs aren’t supposed to be taken for decades, only for a few months at most to get them over the hump.