I know a man whose only child, a college age daughter was killed in a auto accident. He was very active in his church and was devastated by his grief. He quit his job and I never heard from him anymore. He just basically lost the faith and will to live..............
It's incredibly sad and tragic to see people hold their faith during good times, but when things turn dark, painful and agonizing, they turn their back on faith and walk away. She needs gentle support to eventually return. She does not need people throwing barbs and judging her.