Torei,
I don't mean to try to belittle your emotions or feelings about it. Your feelings are 100% valid. It's just that men rarely are able to understand 9 months of the physical consequences of pregnancy.
Communication is a wonderful thing. We males might not be able to personally feel it or experience it, but we can hear and read about it. In that sense, our species is a wonderful and unique thing.
but men are NOT incapable of understanding the precious gift of life....even if you do think they are half brain dead....
(just tryin' to lighten things up guys...... please take it with a grain of salt...)