Moving right along, I also don't really agree that one gender is unable to perceive and understand the feelings and emotions of the other. It might take a bit more work, but it is certainly within the realm of possibility, no?
My best suggestion, is to keep this to an abortion war, without infusing the gender wars into it.
Torei,
I don't mean to try to belittle your emotions or feelings about it. Your feelings are 100% valid. It's just that men rarely are able to understand 9 months of the physical consequences of pregnancy.