I am weighing in here only to say...that I won't be weighing in. : )
really? I think you just tipped the scale!
:-)
Well I couldn't leave a few friends all by themselves esp. since I agree. My position on this was very different in the past, not well thought out and totally irrational. Now I know what I'd do in this situation but I'm not getting into another woman's painful, personal business.