I realize it is heresay on this site ... but men do not understand this issue.
I think you should avoid reproduction, OK?
You're probably right, in general, that men don't understand the issue. But here's my position. I support a reasoned compromise on this issue. Allow all abortions up to around 8-12 weeks. Bar all abortions after that except for rape, incest, and life of the mom.
But my sister, who opposes all abortion restrictions, also thinks I don't understand--because I'm a man.
Moving right along, I also don't really agree that one gender is unable to perceive and understand the feelings and emotions of the other. It might take a bit more work, but it is certainly within the realm of possibility, no?
My best suggestion, is to keep this to an abortion war, without infusing the gender wars into it.
Only those men who think they're speaking for all men don't understand the issue.