My son checked my seat assignments for me and I'm not on the aisle on the way over or back unfortunately. I hate flying myself and vowed after 9/11 that I'd never get on a plane again, but I've decided to go overseas to visit Holland where my Dad was born, and then visit Normandy and take a 24 day motorcoach tour of the UK. It's something I always wanted to do but never thought I'd have the money to do it. Now I have the money, and being retired, I have the time. I figured I might as well spend my money on a trip instead of spending it on my kids.
When you check in shoot for a better seat. They hang onto some for different reasons. Bulkheads for handicapped.
Bulheads are the best since no one is in front of you. Next, ask for Exit Row -- many times those have to be done at the airport.
Make the request when you check in. It never hurts to ask.
I fly every week and have over a million miles. I know of what I speak.