Posted on 02/04/2006 1:02:15 PM PST by XR7
Researchers find it shocking that 11 percent of American girls between 15 and 19 claim to have same-sex encounters. Clearly theyve never observed the social rituals of the pansexual, bi-queer, metroflexible New York teen.Alair is wearing a tight white tank top cut off above the hem to show her midriff. Her black cargo pants graze the top of her combat boots, and her black leather belt is studded with metal chains that drape down at intervals across her hips. She has long blonde curls that at various times have been dyed green, blue, red, purple, and orange. (A mistake, she says. Even if you mean to dye your hair orange, its still a mistake.)
Despite the fact that shes fully clothed, she seems somehow exposed, her baby fat lingering in all the right places. Walking down the sterile, white halls of Stuyvesant High School, she creates a wave of attention. Shes not the most popular girl in school, but she is well known. People like me, she wrote in an instant message. Well, most of them.
Alair is headed for the section of the second-floor hallway where her friends gather every day during their free tenth period for the cuddle puddle, as she calls it. There are girls petting girls and girls petting guys and guys petting guys. She dives into the undulating heap of backpacks and blue jeans and emerges between her two best friends, Jane and Elle, whose names have been changed at their request. They are all 16, juniors at Stuyvesant. Alair slips into Janes lap, and Elle reclines next to them, watching, cat-eyed. All three have hooked up with each other. All three have hooked up with boyssometimes the same boys. But its not that theyre gay or bisexual, not exactly. Not always.
Their friend Nathan, a senior with John Lennon hair and glasses, is there with his guitar, strumming softly under the conversation. So many of the girls here are lesbian or have experimented or are confused, he says.
Ilia, another senior boy, frowns at Nathans use of labels. Its not lesbian or bisexual. Its just, whatever . . .
Since the school day is winding down, things in the hallway are starting to get rowdy. Jane disappears for a while and comes back carrying a pint-size girl over her shoulder. Now I take her off and we have gay sex! she says gleefully, as she parades back and forth in front of the cuddle puddle. And its awesome! The hijacked girl hangs limply, a smile creeping to her lips. Ilia has stuffed papers up the front of his shirt and prances around on tiptoe, batting his eyes and sticking out his chest. Elle is watching, enthralled, as two boys lock lips across the hall. Oh, my, she murmurs. Homoerotica. Theres nothing more exciting than watching two men make out. And everyone is talking to another girl in the puddle who just came out, meaning she announced that shes now open to sexual overtures from both boys and girls, which makes her a minor celebrity, for a little while.
When asked how many of her female friends have had same-sex experiences, Alair answers, All of them. Then she stops to think about it. All right, maybe 80 percent. At least 80 percent of them have experimented. And they still are. Its either to please a man, or to try it out, or just to be fun, or cause youre bored, or just cause you like it . . . whatever.
With teenagers there is always a fair amount of posturing when it comes to sex, a tendency to exaggerate or trivialize, innocence mixed with swagger. Its also true that the puddle is just one clique at Stuyvesant, and that Stuyvesant can hardly be considered a typical high school. It attracts the brightest public-school students in New York, and that may be an environment conducive to fewer sexual inhibitions. In our school, Elle says, people are getting a better education, so theyre more open-minded.
That said, the Stuyvesant cuddle puddle is emblematic of the changing landscape of high-school sexuality across the country. This past September, when the National Center for Health Statistics released its first survey in which teens were questioned about their sexual behavior, 11 percent of American girls polled in the 15-to-19 demographic claimed to have had same-sex encountersthe same percentage of all women ages 15 to 44 who reported same-sex experiences, even though the teenagers have much shorter sexual histories. It doesnt take a Stuyvesant education to see what this means: More girls are experimenting with each other, and theyre starting younger. And this is a conservative estimate, according to Ritch Savin-Williams, a professor of human development at Cornell who has been conducting research on same-sex-attracted adolescents for over twenty years. Depending on how you phrase the questions and how you define sex between women, he believes that its possible to get up to 20 percent of teenage girls...
LINK TO FULL STORY: http://www.nymetro.com/news/features/15589/
I think this is another by-product of the "metrosexualization" of America. Wussie men are "in". And homosexuals have taken over.. every tv show has a homosexual portrayed in it, one of the best picture nominees is about homosexual sheepherders and another movie was about a transvestite. (Kind of insane since homosexuals only make up between l-l0% of the population!)
Saying that, I blame the behavior of these children on their parents. They were not taught the difference between right and wrong, that popular culture and what is on tv is not how we should live our lives.
These poor, lost children are simply a product of their environment. They have been feeding on a steady diet of secularism, relativism, and hedonism their entire lives. The idea of moral restraints has probably never entered their minds. The behavior described in the article, while bizarre and unnatural, is pretty much the same thing shown on MTV on a typical day.
If you swim all day in the sewer, youre not going to come out smelling like roses.
I think they are just going for shock value to pull the tail of the tiger.
Probably a bit on the rare side, these cuddle puddles.
To All,
Stuyvesant? Isn't that the bluest of the "Blue Ribbon" government schools?
Ok,,,,so what's the excuse that parents of Blue Ribbon school attendees are going to use now? That their child's school is OK and wonderful because it is Blue Ribbon?
There is really only one acceptable excuse for sending your precious child to a government school. The only possible acceptable reason is that you are so poor or so dysfunctional you have no other option. If you didn't hand your child over to the government school indoctrinators, armed police and social workers would soon be at your door.
That is the ONLY acceptable reason for sending a child to a government school
Very true. I wonder if there's anything that can be done to change that.
Years ago (I can't remember when) the homo activists used to brag that they would take over by subverting the children. Guess what's happened? Of course they had a little help from the ACLU, the Democrats, the NGO's, the NEA and lately from spineless, RINO's. It's warfare and the commie/NWO/Globalists have won so far.
What's the matter, Alex? Can't spell, "immoral", "lascivious", "slatternly", "sinful", or, just plain "slutty"?
Stuyvesant High School (nicknamed Stuy) is one of 6 of New York City's specialized math- and science-based public high schools...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stuyvesant_High_School
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stuyvesant_High_School
Stuyvesant has contributed to the education of several Nobel laureates, winners of the Fields Medal and the Wolf Prize, and a host of accomplished alumni. It consistently leads the nation in number of National Merit Scholarships and is second to none in the number of Intel Science Talent Search Semi-Finalists and Finalists. Stuyvesant sends nearly all its students off to four year universities and around 15 percent go on to the Ivy League.
Stuyvesant graduates earn an average SAT score of about 1400 (685 verbal, 723 math). [5]. Stuyvesant also was the high school with the highest number of Advanced Placement exams taken, and also the highest number of students reaching the mastery level.
And I thought I was bad for smoking dope and listening to Ozzy!
It is an insult to some of us who can't too.<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
It surely would be. Why anyone wastes the precious gift of children by encouraging such stupid and dangerous behavior is beyond me. What I want to know is when this behavior becomes the norm for kids, whatever will they do to rebel? Will the household animals be safe? (Sorry, but this is just so weird.)
High School sure has changed in the last 40 years. 40 years? How time flies when youre straight.
It's about impressing boys and being popular.
What would they do to rebel? Interesting question.
Go conservative and join the NRA, perhaps? The looks on their parents' faces would be delicious to see.
What about the frickin' school administrators we are paying taxes up the ying-yang to support?
You can see why I'm SO against abortion. I just can't believe people would waste such a precious gift and opportunity. Agreed on your first statement too. I don't understand too, why some people complain so much about (raising) their kids or things about them too. If you are a parent, you have the privilege of having the most importand and greatest job in the world--that of being a mom or dad. I yearn someday to be a dad and to see someone abuse that privilege and why is way beyond me.
The biggest thing I hear is the complaining. My next door neighbor (they are wonderful people) complained one time that she wasn't able to take their kids on 4 vacations that year (only 2 or 3). Well, last year they went to Flordia, California, Las Vegas, and some other places. My vacation times are spend going back home to visit my family. I haven't even been to Disneyland. I just think sometimes some of us take certain things for granted and don't realize that others don't. I am working towards that day when I can indeed become a dad.
You could be right.
After all, Stuyvesant is very conservative, right?
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