I am saving this, CG, if you don't mind. The word epiphany does not do your thoughts justice.
I had a similar epiphany. That by being me, an individual, and a hard working an honest one, the American in me would blossom. And it has. I take pride in my brethren who break out of the ghettoes, and pity all who stay behind, no matter what they call themselves.
Dios lo bendiga.
No hay de que, compadre.
Viva Puerto Rico, USA!