And sometimes the female moves 2,000 miles away while the male is deployed and doesn't tell him about it until the check is due, at which time she is kind enough to provide a P.O. box.
I know. That is the tragedy of the whole thing. I wish we could all had wonderful fairytale lives where everything is fair. But like I said honor your court-ordered duty (if you can't, get it modified)...be as much a father as you CAN be. You'll be better off for it and so will your kids.
I'm sorry the mother of your children cannot be a better mother and person. I'm glad you can be.