I know. That is the tragedy of the whole thing. I wish we could all had wonderful fairytale lives where everything is fair. But like I said honor your court-ordered duty (if you can't, get it modified)...be as much a father as you CAN be. You'll be better off for it and so will your kids.
I'm sorry the mother of your children cannot be a better mother and person. I'm glad you can be.
Well, my son is 20 now and his mother can no longer interfere in our relationship. We've become very close since he's been able to shed her yoke.