It's nice to meet you, too. It's been a civilized conversation around here this afternoon. You know, until now. :)
It was a valid reply you gave to Jack, but not really in the spirit of his question. Let's rephrase:
If an abortion is stopping a growing thing inside the uterus from growing, and if you stop something from growing, aren't you killing that something?
Most likely reply: Ice crystals can grow, do you "kill" ice crystals if you stop them from growing?
Reply to that reply: So do you deny what is in the uterus of a pregnant female is alive? (which is my question, to you)