[Conservative Goddess]

That's a positively hateful assumption. You should be ashamed.

[HuntsvilleTxVeteran]

I am very sad that you lost your wife and I hope you can find a nice woman as a help mate. I was referring to a 2 parent family.
I am mean about people who warehouse their children or parents in old folks home or daycare (not your case) because both parents choose to work.
I got mean about this when I started visiting people in an old folks home. I did it to make me and them feel better.
I noticed that too many kinfolks would visit at first and it would taper off to once or twice a year. It was inconvenient to visit them more.