"Because they want a power differential in their marriage. They want a lesser, not a partner." No men want someone they can team with in facing what life has to offer together. Powerful unions come from that approach, rather than making"power" the essential element ini a marriage. The distribution of power is actually politics. Too much politics in a marriage equals a failed marriage. In a team approach power is shared organically and functionally, related to tasking.
Finding such a teamate these days is so difficult because giving up power is what marriage is about for both who are involved in the relationship.