That is the heart of our disagreement. Unfortunately, I can explain it to you but I cannot understand it for you. If you need it explained, I'm afraid it would be pointless to try.
I think the concept you're avoiding here is "evasiveness."
As in, "I am out of ammo. I need to get out of here quickly."
You can't explain it because there is nothing to explain; I've got you covered no matter how you twist and turn. [Some people can't admit this when it happens to them, and so they habitually respond with non sequiturs. Whatever, it's OK with me (smile).]