Of 116 major wars of 438 countries between 1789 and 1941 not one involved democracies on both sides, although the studies author did get a bit twisty in their reasoning for the War of 1812 and the Civil War IMO.
I suggest reading "Power Kills" by R. J. Rummel.
How about the American Civil War? Were those not two democracies?
And...
Supposedly, all but 2 or 3 of the current world conflicts (some 100 of them) have muslims/Islamics on one side of the conflict.
During those years, how many democracies existed at the same time?
And count us out--we're a republic.
Any entity in which half the population are disenfranchised slaves cannot be a democracy. Strike the American Civil War from your list.