I am sorry for the problems in your family. I wish that they were unique. I have no problem with people enjoying alcohol responsibly. But we take 18 and 19 year-old kids into the military for a reason: They are easier to lead because they are not completely formed adult minds. They are impressionable.
True we build men to follow orders, yet today's volunteer military is the best because the men and women want to be lead by good leaders they respect and most importantly...TRUST...that is why dims can never be allowed again to get the power to lead our troops...they are not worthy of trust...Hillary would be the worst CIC in any World view and in America...