Contact HSLDA.org and talk to them.
http://www.hslda.org
I will check with some of the parents who have brought this problem to my attention and see if they were able to help..
It is a shame that the RECRUITERS are missing out on a HUGE market and look at homeschooled recruits as a "problem" to begin with...
"Contact HSLDA.org and talk to them."
Good idea as I recall they've been fighting/dealing with this for some number of years.