Who are YOU to call the Confederates "the enemy"? The southern states had just as much of a God-given right to secede from the Union & form their own government in 1861 that the original colonies had to secede from the British enpire in 1776.
The difference being, of course, that in the rebels of 1776 were winners while the rebels of 1861 are just whiners. That's what happens when you lose.