Posted on 11/10/2005 5:45:25 PM PST by saquin
THEY came from all over. From the swanky suburbs of Amman, from ancient Jerusalem, Kuwait City and the United States to celebrate the union of their families.
A day later, the wedding guests found themselves gathered together in mourning, around freshly dug graves in the sprawling cemetery where, one after another, 17 of those who had come in celebration were laid to rest.
The bride and groom, Ashraf Daas, 32, and Nadia al-Alami, 24, had been married less than half an hour when tragedy struck. Married in front of 200 guests, many of who had flown in days before for the society wedding, they went upstairs for their official photographs as the guests milled around in the ballroom, talking excitedly and catching up on family news.
The last picture to be taken was of the couple with their fathers on either side, Nadias holding his new son-in-laws hand and Ashrafs clutching that of the bride, to symbolise the union of the two families.
Ashraf took out his mobile phone to call downstairs and tell his friends to prepare for their arrival. The traditional Palestinian band, or dabbka, struck up its pipes as the four walked towards the door of the ballroom. And then the bomber struck.
I thought they were fireworks to greet our arrival. Then I saw the broken glass and the smoke and I heard the screaming, Nadia told The Times as she arrived at the hospital where her mother is in a coma.
She collapsed in shock and her husband threw himself on top of her to protect her. But the blast had already wreaked its damage and other bodies had saved the newlyweds. On either side of them, their fathers lay prostrate, Nadias already dead, cut down by a piece of shrapnel blown into his head, Ashrafs bleeding but still breathing just.
It was as if they had been protecting them, said Mustafa Akhras, 27. They both died but Nadia and Ashraf, they didnt have as much as a graze. The only thing left intact in the hall was the wedding cake.
Nadia and Ashraf were a golden couple, beloved of their prominent Palestinian families and friends. They met two years ago when Nadia was a student doing work experience in hospital administration. Ashraf was a medical supplies salesman, and they met when he visited the medical centre where she worked. Romance soon blossomed.
He used to go and meet her when she was getting out of university and theyd go and have coffee together, go to movies, Osaid Qoashoe, 24, Ashrafs friend, said. He said Ive found her at last, shes perfect.
After a year he called his family in Kuwait and told them:
Ive found a girl. Shes going to be a good wife, Im going to marry her.
The Daas family were delighted, as were the Alamis. They were so happy, Nadia said. On March 17, the couple were formally engaged. Nadia spent five months planning the wedding. We wanted everything to be perfect, she said. We had to have everything finished before Ramadan. Then, as soon as Eid was over, we would be married.
Ashrafs family, led by his father Khalid Daas, flew in from Kuwait where they had fled from their ancestral home in Jenin after the 1967 war with Israel. Yesterday he was laid to rest in accordance with Muslim tradition in the Saab graveyard on a barren hillside outside Amman along with 16 other relatives and friends, including Ashrafs uncle, four cousins and an aunt. Yesterday was my wedding day and today I have to bury my father, Ashraf said. My only joy is that my wife is alive.
In accordance with tradition, Nadia was not at the funeral. Still clearly in shock, her face gaunt and without make-up, she wept on the shoulders of her older sister Nancy outside the intensive care unit at the Amman Surgical Hospital where her mother was lying with a piece of shrapnel lodged in her neck. Her fathers body still lay in a morgue across town. She had not seen him yet; Ashraf had rushed her home from the hotel immediately after the blast to spare her the horrors of the scene. We will bury him tomorrow, Nancy said. Today all we can do is worry about my mother.
Wiping her eyes, Nadia left to go back and sit with her new mother-in-law, to grieve and wait for her husband. They were supposed to be leaving for Sharm-el-Sheik on honeymoon tomorrow, Nancy said. But that will not happen now.
Instead there will be another funeral, for the six of their family members who died. As many as 30 other guests have yet to be identified, too badly burned to be recognised.
What kind of person would do this to people celebrating a wedding? My sisters wedding? Nancy said, anger rising in her voice. When I saw the policemen I asked them If you know who did this, give me a call and Ill shoot them myself. Honestly, I would do it myself.
Ashraf al-Akhras and his bride Nadia Alami, center, are welcomed by their relatives during their wedding ceremony at the Radisson SAS hotel in Amman, Jordan, prior a suicide bombing attack, in this picture taken late Wednesday, Nov. 9, 2005. The groom, Ashraf al-Akhras, suffered serious injuries and was rushed to an Amman hospital. The bride, Nadia Alami, escaped injury. But the newlyweds both lost their fathers. Al-Qaida issued an Internet claim of responsibility Thursday for three suicide bomb attacks on Western hotels that killed at least 56 people, linking the deadly blasts to the war in Iraq and calling Amman the 'backyard garden' for U.S. operations.(AP Photo/HO)
Ashraf Mohamed al-Akhras and his bride Nadia al-Alami (C) pose with their fathers during their wedding reception at Radisson SAS hotel in the center of Amman, November 9 2005. Both the bride and groom lost their fathers during the bombing. (Issa Abu Othman/Reuters)
When will the world wake up to the fact that these people dont care who they murder? You dont have to be American, Catholic, Islamic, Iraqui. These crazy bastards will blow you up. No one is safe while they exist.
"Bomber" Not terrorist nor murdering Islamofascist scum. Just a bomber.
"No one is safe while they exist."
Precisely.
I don't normally use profanity but this P's me off more than anything. I saw this picture of this gorgeous bride and handsome husband alongside of their obviously adoring fathers and thought of some damn jihadist freak invading their wedding and gleefully causing mayhem and violence - and I agree with the bride's sister.
If I had a gun, I'd shoot them myself. How dare they intrude upon this holy and sancrosect day.
TRS
Beautiful girl, and she has her priorities in order.
Her fathers body still lay in a morgue across town. She had not seen him yet; Ashraf had rushed her home from the hotel immediately after the blast to spare her the horrors of the scene. We will bury him tomorrow, Nancy said. Today all we can do is worry about my mother.
Pray for mother, bury father, kill terrorists.
The culprit's name is Zarqawi. He is a Palenstinian born in Jordan, currently hiding somewhere probably in Iraq, where he is the emir of al Qaeda between the rivers. Good luck and good hunting.
From the article: It was as if they [the fathers] had been protecting them, said Mustafa Akhras, 27. They both died but Nadia and Ashraf, they didnt have as much as a graze.
Hate that. I always suspect the worst news is the correct story.
Terrorists/suicide murders, one and the same. The world needs to join forces and stop them.
The same type of people who would do it to kids eating pizza, students on a bus to school, workers sitting in their desks in NYc, elderly people at a Passover dinner....
Did any of you Arabs happen to notice those people when you supported- or were at best unconcerned- for the previous barbarity?
This is just so unspeakably awful.
Horrible story. I have been praying for these poor people all day.
What a terribly sad story! But the bride and groom remain. I wish them a long and happy life together.
Easier said than done, for sure. . .
. . .we cannot even get the Democrats in our country to join the anti-terrorist forces.
This picture of the bride and her father brought me to tears. How happy this man looks, how proud of his beautiful daughter, how pleased that he gave her the wedding of her dreams.
And I cannot imagine any sane person in the Arab world not throwing their hands up and screaming at al Qaeda to stop now. They must hate them. At least they do now.
I agree with that. I suspect it was an assasination.
That is because they are really Dhimmocrats..
I wonder whether the truth will ever be revealed.
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