Fortunately my marriage was wonderful and our boys could see that we loved each other. When one stays in a marriage just for the kids and the kids see two miserable people they just assume that is what marriage is all about rather than that it should be based upon love. How healthy will their relationships be?
Statistically? A whole lot better than those who go through divorce. Sorry, but thems the facts.
I will just say this I am married 10 years now, have no children with my current husband, and we are together because we choose to be together not out of need or expectation, but I will tell you this, the day my husband says to me I don't love you anymore or I want to be with someone else HE IS FREE TO GO..I force no one to stay married to me, or will try to talk them into staying, I am a grown up can take care of myself and I either want the *Right* relationship or none at all...