[ApplegateRanch]

Clue number one that Mr. Dreamboat is more likely a leaky dinghy:

A handsome, cultured, suave mature male with a certain minimal level of affluence has to travel to a foreign country to find a mate at a cattle-call, without even a shared language.

[HOTTIEBOY]

Money-to-brains ratio leans too far to the later.

[Petronski]

You've nailed it.

[Freebird Forever]

A handsome, cultured, suave mature male with a certain minimal level of affluence has to travel to a foreign country to find a mate at a cattle-call, without even a shared language.

On the other hand, if one wishes to obtain a gemstone, one must travel to where the gemstones can be found in abundance. Especially if one finds himself surrounded by slag heaps.