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What's a Modern Girl to Do?
New York Times ^ | 30 October 2005 | Maureen Dowd

Posted on 10/30/2005 6:14:25 AM PST by shrinkermd

When I entered college in 1969, women were bursting out of theirs 50's chrysalis, shedding girdles, padded bras and conventions. The Jazz Age spirit flared in the Age of Aquarius. Women were once again imitating men and acting all independent: smoking, drinking, wanting to earn money and thinking they had the right to be sexual, this time protected by the pill. I didn't fit in with the brazen new world of hard-charging feminists. I was more of a fun-loving (if chaste) type who would decades later come to life in Sarah Jessica Parker's Carrie Bradshaw. I hated the grubby, unisex jeans and no-makeup look and drugs that zoned you out, and I couldn't understand the appeal of dances that didn't involve touching your partner. In the universe of Eros, I longed for style and wit. I loved the Art Deco glamour of 30's movies. I wanted to dance the Continental like Fred and Ginger in white hotel suites; drink martinis like Myrna Loy and William Powell; live the life of a screwball heroine like Katharine Hepburn, wearing a gold lamé gown cut on the bias, cavorting with Cary Grant, strolling along Fifth Avenue with my pet leopard.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: catherinezetajones; dowd; dowdy; feminism; hysterics; leftistloon; maureen; menopause; modo; moonbat; pms; women
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To: Congressman Billybob
I wanted to dance the Continental like Fred and Ginger in white hotel suites; drink martinis like Myrna Loy and William Powell; live the life of a screwball heroine like Katharine Hepburn, wearing a gold lamé gown cut on the bias, cavorting with Cary Grant

I think it's rather amusing that she fantasizes about traditional relationships that have no place in the moonbat world.
41 posted on 10/30/2005 7:22:47 AM PST by visualops (www.visualops.com)
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To: shrinkermd

Sorry: I find Ms. Dowd's writing to be derivative and self-absorbed. She tries too hard to be clever, and rather than attempting to discover the truth of a matter, expends her verbal energy attempting to shoehorn whatever she sees into the mean little boxes of her prejudices and petty dislikes.


42 posted on 10/30/2005 7:22:47 AM PST by andy58-in-nh
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To: Cicero
As you know in a capitalistic society the consumer is king. It is no accident the NYT hires and pays Dowd great sums. Contrary, to what you indicate, almost all single women (and a few men) periodically make extraordinary efforts to find a life long commitment. The popularity of dating services and the numerous Web Sites giving support to dating activities is proof positive of this.

For most people finding a soul mate, helpmate and spouse surely seems more important than finding the right SCOTUS candidate.

43 posted on 10/30/2005 7:24:39 AM PST by shrinkermd
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To: shrinkermd
Having sworn off reading Maureen Dowd years ago, I will only comment on the titles suggestion of ... "What's a Modern Girl to Do?


Walk like a lady, talk like a lady, smile a lot, and for crying out loud ... fight the primitive urge to get that tattoo! ;)



44 posted on 10/30/2005 7:25:18 AM PST by G.Mason ("Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!". Admiral Farragut, August 5, 1864)
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To: Congressman Billybob

"Lady why don't you just get laid"? -- From "The Eiger Sanction


45 posted on 10/30/2005 7:28:25 AM PST by You Dirty Rats
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To: shrinkermd

Then she should be writing for the Enquirer or People magazine if she wishes to spew her menopausal hysterics, vice nationally syndicated political opinion.

You can support her all you want.

The Times can too.

See how long the Times and Dowd last.

Dont expect anyone to sign on to her drivel. You are free to do so.


46 posted on 10/30/2005 7:28:30 AM PST by axes_of_weezles (mainstream extremist (Ha))
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To: wouldntbprudent

People who have problems generally stop maturing at the age the problem took root, and they stay there until they resolve the problem.

While it's good that feminism made it all right to choose to be a spinster with a career, and those who never had an offer of marriage can still live a prosperous and enjoyable life and retire in comfort and have plenty to care for ourselves, it's sad that all women are still judged by their marital and reproductive status -- and by their age and fashion sense. Those of us with lives of our own just blow this kind of thing off, but it's kind of like being nibbled by ducks; it won't kill you but it surely does make it hard to concentrate on what you really need to get done.

Dowd needs to resolve her problems and move on from them. So do a lot of men her age.


47 posted on 10/30/2005 7:28:50 AM PST by KateatRFM
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To: shrinkermd
Apparently she had 2 boxes of wine last night? What a mess.

Pray for W and Our Troops

48 posted on 10/30/2005 7:29:42 AM PST by bray (Iraq, freed from Saddamn now Pray for Freedom from Mohammad)
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To: shrinkermd

cbb


49 posted on 10/30/2005 7:31:45 AM PST by ichabod1 (PC equals aPCzment)
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To: axes_of_weezles


Hubba, hubba...
50 posted on 10/30/2005 7:33:19 AM PST by jimbo123
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To: jimbo123

She looks like a used up old French whore.


51 posted on 10/30/2005 7:34:10 AM PST by axes_of_weezles (mainstream extremist (Ha))
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To: Clara Lou
She's still a dour, negative, complaining, younger version of Molly Ivins.
I've met Molly Ivans. While her sense of humor can make people laugh, there's an edge of mean bitterness there.
52 posted on 10/30/2005 7:36:08 AM PST by Beaker
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To: shrinkermd

It's so painfully obvious that Dowd would be much better adjusted if she had a real man and great sex in her life.

She has always needed that yet refuses to acknowledge it.

Children would have been nice too.

So she could live outside herself and toss all that self obsessed projecting she is prone to.

I have pity for her. I know a lot of women like her.

They have been totally screwed up by feminazi logic designed by lesbians for lesbians yet foisted on women as a whole.

A tragedy.


53 posted on 10/30/2005 7:37:13 AM PST by wardaddy (It's Manana Again in America!)
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To: shrinkermd

 

...and one more.

54 posted on 10/30/2005 7:39:13 AM PST by Fintan (If this tagline lasts longer than 4 hours, please consult a physician.)
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To: shrinkermd
I suppose we are free to disagree, but this Maureen is very good at observation, describing what is really happening and, then, placing a view on it you may not like at all. We call that a provocative thinker.

I don't mean to change the subject, but I have to go anyway, so I won't be able to read any replies until later.

Your comment reminds me of Dick Morris. Brilliant analysis, hopelessly incorrect conclusion. Perhaps I would call it Intellectual Myopia.

(As a homework assignment Doc, what about comparing and contrasting the psycho-sexual obsessions of Maureen Dowd and Mark Morford with President George W. Bush. T'would be an interesting read. Just kidding. That would mean wading through way too much smelly stuff that gets on your boots.)

55 posted on 10/30/2005 7:39:37 AM PST by ichabod1 (PC equals aPCzment)
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To: shrinkermd

Maureen Dowd, who I usually find to be mostly insipid, nails the status of the Modern Girl.

To the male posters on this thread: Are you trying to protect your "eggshell egos from high-achieving women?!"


56 posted on 10/30/2005 7:40:02 AM PST by ModernAyn
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To: ModernAyn

At least Dowd did not have hatchlings, that continued to pollute the gene pool.

That's the only positive thing I have to say about her (it).

The skank still has the smell of Bill Clinton.

The dour odor of 8 years of rot is hard to wash off.


57 posted on 10/30/2005 7:44:13 AM PST by axes_of_weezles (mainstream extremist (Ha))
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To: shrinkermd

She's just mad that she clawed her way up to the glass ceiling and no one wants to look up her dress.


58 posted on 10/30/2005 7:48:07 AM PST by small voice in the wilderness (u)
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To: shrinkermd
"I longed for style and wit."

And you still are, little miss penis-envy."

59 posted on 10/30/2005 7:50:32 AM PST by paddles
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To: shrinkermd
What many American women have become. No wonder our modern corner pharmacies have two drive-up lanes.

Just be thankful you are not married to her. Can you imagine the hell of that?

60 posted on 10/30/2005 7:51:39 AM PST by NoControllingLegalAuthority
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