1. Ladies, how would you feel about your guy if he was getting off on porn?
2. Guys ... ?
Porn isn't really "sex", right?
Funny you should ask that! Just this week, a friend I hadn't seen in a while sat on my porch telling me about her divorce last year.
And I'll preface this with she's very pretty, gorgeous body and just a fun good ole girl. Not prissy, not prudey.....and oh yeah, she's one of my dance students.
Hubby was into porn, she found out when they got married, and her reaction was "That's like another woman in our marriage!" but he insisted he 'needed' it because his drive was so much greater than hers.
(Say what?!?.....That knocked her socks off as well as mine, cuz she's got drive, lots of it...) Anyhow, Seems hubby got to where he would flatly refuse sex with her, but she'd wake up at 3am and find in my the living room watching porn. She'd go to be and cry about it, but try again later.
Time passed, and the next time she found him in the Living room, he was into stuff so off the wall that she basically moved out the next day.
She looked him in the eye and said "You're at a point where 'normal' sex with your 'normal' wife won't do it for you anymore" and the jerk agreed.
Oh well, She's dating a River Pilot now who thinks she hung the moon.
Oh yeah, and my biggest complaint with porn is that most of it's actors would disappear if all child molestation and incest stopped. Granted, not ALL of it's actors, but most....expecially those without one itty bitty shred of self esteem left (That is why it creeps me out).
1. Ladies, how would you feel about your guy if he was getting off on porn?
I once went on a blind date with a woman for a cup of cofee at a nearby mall. As were were walking around, getting to know each other, we walked by a Victoria's Secret store, and she noticed my glancing at the storefront. She made this "tsk, tsk" sound, and began talking about the evils of porn. I asked her what her views were, and she stated flat out that "porn should be outlawed." My response was "really?" She said YES! And it needs to start with Playboy. I was surprised, as Playboy has never really seemed like a major player in the porn universe... She said that Playboy was evil, and Hefner was a tool of the devil, and that she would never be with a man who read it. So, being a smartass, my response was, "so I guess my having a subscription would count me out, huh?" She said that if I ever wanted to go out on another date, I'd have to cancel my subscription to Playboy. That was the last time I saw or spoke to her.
Mark