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Wife's song provides encouragement to spouse, others during separation
Air Force Link ^ | 10-19-2005 | John Ingle

Posted on 10/19/2005 10:23:24 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma

82nd Training Wing Public Affairs

10/19/2005 - SHEPPARD AIR FORCE BASE, Texas (AFPN) -- Heather Wagner watched intently as the dramatic scene played out on her television screen.

A Soldier was deploying. And there by the departure gate, his wife and children hugged and kissed their goodbyes as tears cascaded down their faces. 

As Heather's gaze drifted from the television to her husband, Tech. Sgt. James Wagner, she could tell the difficulties of saying goodbye on his upcoming deployment weighed heavily on his heart. 

"I don't want you to look at this and think this is what we're going to be doing," she said to her husband of seven years. 

Despite her words, she could tell he was still bothered. 

When the F-16 Fighting Falcon crew chief finally deployed, she wanted him to know that life will go on even though he would be half a world away for a year. That is why she wrote the song, "Keep Living." 

"I wanted to let my husband know that things are going to be all right," she said. 

During one of their many phone conversations following his departure, she told him about the song she had written. She sang it to him on the phone, and it helped set his mind at ease regarding how the family was holding up during his absence.

The song was intended to convey the thoughts so many families faced during long deployments or remote tours. Mrs. Wagner said she wanted the song to give her husband peace of mind, to allow him to focus on his mission without wondering if his family was OK.

"I consider this my way of serving," she said.

"Keep Living" didn't stop with the Wagners. Mrs. Wagner said a friend of hers was having a hard time coping with the departure of her spouse. The two talked for a while, and Mrs. Wagner told her about the song she wrote. The mezzo-soprano then sang the words of getting by while a servicemember was gone, and she too, felt encouraged by the simple, but powerful words.

Through word of mouth, news about the song reached other spouses, and requests came in for copies of the 27-year-old's home recording of the song.

"People I didn't know were knocking on my door," she said.

To let others hear her song, she cut a compact disc, due out in a few weeks.
 
(Courtesy of Air Education and Training Command News Service)





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To: Brad's Gramma


Tes Ma'am. :)


21 posted on 10/19/2005 10:52:18 PM PDT by onyx ((Vicksburg, MS) North is a direction. South is a way of life.)
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http://www.heatherwagner.com/photos.html


Go get some Kleenex and look at Heather's pictures on her site. One especially will tug at your heart...


22 posted on 10/19/2005 10:54:20 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (FR1....Varoooooom, Varooooooom!!!)
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Heather, hubby and little guy BUMP!!!


23 posted on 10/19/2005 11:18:35 PM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (FR1....Varoooooom, Varooooooom!!!)
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To: Brad's Gramma

Het Girl, ya done good. I've emailed the link to about 40 military wives.


24 posted on 10/20/2005 12:20:39 AM PDT by B4Ranch
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To: Brad's Gramma

Thanks for posting this Gramma! My best friend's husband is leaving later today and I was happy to be able to send her a link to this story and the song. (o:


25 posted on 10/20/2005 1:09:41 AM PDT by LibertyRocks (OU Bombing Summary (updated 10/18) - http://sweetliberty.alfablog.com)
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To: Brad's Gramma

BTTT


26 posted on 10/20/2005 2:59:42 AM PDT by E.G.C.
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To: Brad's Gramma

Wonderful post. What a lovely song .God bless Heather and her family.

Lauranne


27 posted on 10/20/2005 3:43:20 AM PDT by WasDougsLamb (Just my opinion.Go easy on me........)
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To: Brad's Gramma

bttt


28 posted on 10/20/2005 3:44:20 AM PDT by Guenevere (God bless our military!...and God bless the President of the United States!)
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To: Brad's Gramma

" Go get some Kleenex and look at Heather's pictures on her site. One especially will tug at your heart..."


Oh you are sooooo right...
AND I think he could join the HUBBA HUBBA gang!
(the dad of course)


29 posted on 10/20/2005 7:30:50 AM PDT by M0sby (((PROUD WIFE of MSgt Edwards USMC)))
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To: Brad's Gramma

Thanks for the ping!


30 posted on 10/20/2005 7:38:56 AM PDT by Alamo-Girl
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To: B4Ranch
THANKS! THAT'S what they need!!!

YOU done good.

31 posted on 10/20/2005 10:04:19 AM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (FR1....Varoooooom, Varooooooom!!!)
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AND I think he could join the HUBBA HUBBA gang!

M0sby! Tsk tsk tsk!

I'll see what can be done about that. :)

32 posted on 10/20/2005 10:06:36 AM PDT by Brad’s Gramma (FR1....Varoooooom, Varooooooom!!!)
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