grand solution for any guy: keep your zipper up until you are married.
Men of real quality don't want weak or overly dependent women. However, they don't want to feel inferior, either.
This probably excludes within-the-office romance between
a high-ranking woman and a lower-ranking man. But the high-ranking woman need not act high-ranking outside of work and those she works with.
The article is basically correct, in other words, but the solution isn't hard to figure out.