I understand too well where you are coming from. I felt the same but could not voice it to my children who watched it with me. But what I did tell them was "this was the face of evil. This is what our soldiers are fighting and don't ever let anyone ever tell you different." I was preaching to the choir as they felt the angry courage of the heroes on that plane.
Bingham's Mom reminds me of someone whose son had went through a crisis and survived and was living next door. It is weird. I wonder if she is on meds.