Goes both ways pal.
What the heck are you talking about?!? My wife has only ever slept with me. If you're calling me a baby raper, then say so. That way I can hit the abuse button. I married a fine woman 16 years ago and we work very hard to have the best relationship possible. It gets better every year.
For some reason, I have never heard any divorced person ever take any responsibility for the dissolution of their marriage vows. It's always "that dirty so-and-so..."
We use to sacrafice virgins to volcano gods. Don't do that anymore either.
I've never done that, but if that is what you used to be into...