I really like Deborah Orin.
You and Deb have a lot in common. It might be called "sitcom mentality".
It goes something like this: 1. Start with a peaceful scene. 2. Enter Villan doing harmful things. 3. Find and hang the beaurocrats who let villan do bad things. 4. Have John-Boy say goodnite with a bedtime story to all the saved refugees. Roll credits to you are the Wind beneath My Wings. Do it all in 30 minutes.
That's all fine. Except when you have a tragedy like the one still happening for the last week or more and still going on.
Be assured that you and Deb are not the Lone Ranger. Most everyone is incapable of grasping the enormity of this calamity. The difference in this one is that you and Deb and everyone else is directly involved in this disaster and it ain't over.