Me too, I feel sorry for her. Can't imagine losing my son (who is a precious 4 years old right now) and what that grief would do to me. And to have people try to take advantage for a political agenda is reprehensible.
Sorry, but she used up all my sympathy some time ago. Others have lost loved ones, including sons, in all sorts of way, including wars and the attack on the WTC on 9/11/01. Grieving widows and parents did not join forces with the enemy in most of these cases as a form of grief management. Those who did probably would have dones so even if their loved ones had lived. This woman lacks integrity and character, and now everyone knows it.