Sorry, but she used up all my sympathy some time ago. Others have lost loved ones, including sons, in all sorts of way, including wars and the attack on the WTC on 9/11/01. Grieving widows and parents did not join forces with the enemy in most of these cases as a form of grief management. Those who did probably would have dones so even if their loved ones had lived. This woman lacks integrity and character, and now everyone knows it.
I certainly don't disagree with you, but I just can't imagine the horror of losing a child and what it might do to my ability to think rationally. I disagree totally with what she is doing but am so very sorry for her loss. And I have little doubt that in her grief her judgment is clouded so that she has less clarity into the motives of those left-wing activists egging her on. They should be ashamed of themselves.