After reading your posts, it is not hard to figure out why the South wanted out.
The controllers of the South's slave empire had a lock on this nation's politics for over 50 years, when Lincoln was elected the so-called 'Confederate' leadership knew changes to 'their way of life' (death to others) was about to be altered, so what action was taken? Full scale insurrection was instigated by the same element, which after four bloody years of the Civil War, the 'Confederate' staged rebellion was throughly crushed.