How would you like to earn a million dollars, and then be ordered by the courts to give it to some girl who (after 18 years) stole your kids, your house, and your future?
Life is tough.
you mean your ex wife?
Not exactly the info in my case, he filed, and ran out after we have supporting his illness, trying counseling, and fixing the family. Evidently repairing the family wasn't one of his priorities and the children weren't either until he filed.