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Law Protects Women But Victimizes Many Men
Los Angeles Daily Journal; San Francisco Daily Journal | July 13, 2005 | Gordon Finley

Posted on 07/17/2005 4:53:44 AM PDT by FreeManDC

In my view, the Violence Against Women Act should be taken as a wake-up call for children and fathers. For all people of good will, the critical reality of the act is that things are not as they seem.

The apparent goal of the law is to protect women from domestic violence. This certainly is a worthy goal and one that no member of Congress can fail to support.

There is, however, a critical hidden agenda. That agenda - buried under the smokescreen of Violence Against Women Act rhetoric - is: (a) the separation of fathers and children; (b) the establishment of matriarchal control over one of society's must fundamental institutions, the family; and (c) the transfer of wealth from men to women.

The key mechanism underlying this agenda is the denial of due process to men following the filing of domestic violence allegations. This denial of due process is why Congress either must sunset or rewrite the Violence Against Women Act rhetoric - or lose votes in 2006.

The hidden agenda is very simple. Under the Violence Against Women Act, any woman can obtain restraining or protection orders against any man under even the most blatantly false of pretenses. This occurs because there is no due process protection for men once the restraining order has been requested in civil rather than criminal court.

Further, these restraining/protection orders are required to be issued even if based only on the claim of how a woman states that she "feels," and not on any evidence of actual abuse.

Once a mother has a restraining/protection order, the father is separated from the children and the house and is obliged immediately to begin supporting the lifestyle of his former wife and children. With the subsequent divorce the mother obtains physical custody of the children more than 87 percent of the time, thus establishing post-divorce matriarchal control of the family. Most men will not believe that this could happen to them.

What makes this scheme so diabolical is that it is men's tax dollars that finance the destruction of their own families and their separation from their children and their wealth.

The transfer of wealth from men to women is accomplished through the child support collection industry and alimony. Allegedly, this transfer is done under the guise of "the best interests of the child." However, the true beneficiaries are women who receive child support and alimony utterly free of any accountability for how the wealth is saved or spent.

The mother is virtually guaranteed of this transfer of wealth because of the Catch-22 enforcement mechanisms built into the child support collection industry. If a father falls into arrears for any reason - including reduced pay because of military call-up - he cannot escape impoverishment because of the Bradley Amendment. The Bradley Amendment requires fathers who fall into arrears to continue to pay - and pay back - child support at the level of their formerly higher income no matter what their current income - or face debtor's prison.

The family court system colludes with the child support system to impoverish fathers because it makes it virtually impossible - through delay, gender bias, immense effort and exorbitant expense - to get child support or alimony obligations reduced, no matter what the changed financial circumstances of the father or mother may be.

For children and fathers, the Violence Against Women Act is the opening wedge from which post-divorce matriarchal control of the family and the transfer of wealth from men to women are accomplished in a seamless system.

All persons of good will should demand that their senators and representatives either sunset or rewrite the act to include due process for men. At stake are votes in 2006.

Gordon E. Finley, PhD, Professor of Psychology, Florida International University, Miami


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government
KEYWORDS: domesticviolence; vawa
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1 posted on 07/17/2005 4:53:44 AM PDT by FreeManDC
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To: FreeManDC

Yep yep yep. Even criminal women known by authorities to exploit children by vitualy prostituting children to their boyfriends and what not get custody. It's part of the "bortion for women's welfare" logic.

The Nazies in the sytem pretend they do not know what goes on.

In a country of empowerment of women, which bases survival on power, is a country out to kill each other, about who can put the other's nose in the sewer first.

It's evil of the greatest under guise of feminism.


2 posted on 07/17/2005 5:08:54 AM PDT by JudgemAll (Condemn me, make me naked and kill me, or be silent for ever on my gun ownership and law enforcement)
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To: JudgemAll
At stake are votes in 2006.

This line strikes me as rather an odd ending for this article.

3 posted on 07/17/2005 5:22:06 AM PDT by Maceman
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To: JudgemAll

Yes, men do need equal protection from some women. Give it to them, for it is not fair.


4 posted on 07/17/2005 5:33:49 AM PDT by tessalu
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To: FreeManDC
VAWA has become the employment act for womens' study majors. (What else could you do with that degree?) This is a SOCIAL initiative that was formed in the Clinton years. While politically VERY active, there has been only a negligible decrease in domestic violence over the 20 years and billions of dollars spent on these programs. I hate to break the news to you - but VAWA ain't about domestic violence.

Nor would groups supported by VAWA want a decrease in domestic violence. They would rather keep doing what they are doing - getting access to police DAs and politicians in order to spew their "men are BAD BAD BAD" diatribe. I mean, have you met any of these women? What a piece of work they are.
5 posted on 07/17/2005 5:50:06 AM PDT by Fido969 ("The story is true" - Dan Rather)
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To: FreeManDC

What ever happened to all are equal?


6 posted on 07/17/2005 5:51:36 AM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Seeking the truth here folks.)
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To: FreeManDC

What ever happened to all are equal?


7 posted on 07/17/2005 5:52:46 AM PDT by PeterPrinciple (Seeking the truth here folks.)
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To: Fido969

Have I met some of these women? No. But I've seen the names of the dead ones in the newspapers.


8 posted on 07/17/2005 5:53:04 AM PDT by ladyjane
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To: PeterPrinciple
What ever happened to all are equal?

Its been hijacked by the feminist man hating crowd.

9 posted on 07/17/2005 5:59:58 AM PDT by demlosers (Allegra: Do not believe the garbage the media is feeding you back home.)
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To: ladyjane
This misses the point, which is that it is unjust to punish one man for the crime of another. It's a sexist stereotype that men are aggressors in domestic situations. It may be in general true, but its still a stereotype - like "women are weak" or "women tend to leave the workforce in mid-career". It is unjust to base laws on sexist stereotypes.
10 posted on 07/17/2005 6:03:46 AM PDT by brookwood1
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To: FreeManDC
There is, however, a critical hidden agenda. That agenda - buried under the smokescreen of Violence Against Women Act rhetoric - is: (a)...(b)...c)...

...and thus the left's war on the family continues. Destroy all that is good, warp the American dream, leave the populace wanting and reliant on the bureaucracy. The DUtopia of the left.

11 posted on 07/17/2005 6:08:16 AM PDT by infidel29 ("It is only the warlike power of a civilized people that can give peace to the world."- T. Roosevelt)
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To: ladyjane
Have I met some of these women? No. But I've seen the names of the dead ones in the newspapers.

6 billion + spent on VAWA didn't seem to help those women much.

12 posted on 07/17/2005 6:42:14 AM PDT by Fido969 ("The story is true" - Dan Rather)
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To: brookwood1
The problem is that some folks automatically think that VAWA has something to do with preventing domestic violence. It never has and never will.

It's not about domestic violence - it's about creating an industry to support radical fems.
13 posted on 07/17/2005 6:45:53 AM PDT by Fido969 ("The story is true" - Dan Rather)
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To: Fido969

Women killed in the process? You betcha.

But worse, the system is the employer, it employs power struggle violence and it blames the employees. Ah!

Also many elderly women who bust their knees doing manual labor pay for these programs and welfare frauds. I hear them at work complaining. This is govenment feminist domestic abuse on women we don't hear about.

Another side effect is out of wedlock relationships and even terrorism. Destroy the patriotic base, the care for future generations, promote access through power and all defenses breakdown.

I mean, on 911 a bunch of liberal feminist lawyers fell off the building too.... do they realize it?


15 posted on 07/17/2005 6:54:01 AM PDT by JudgemAll (Condemn me, make me naked and kill me, or be silent for ever on my gun ownership and law enforcement)
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To: FreeManDC

university feminists have sought for decades to locate the power of bringing up children to women, the state, and eventually the u.n.

the men supply the sperm and the money. (some day the sperm may not be necessary, but the money will.)

even capitalism has located the power to women. women spend 2/3 -3/4 of the consumer dollar. consequently, most everything is designed for women.

any male that thinks he's "equal" hasn't been recently on a university campus or divorced.


16 posted on 07/17/2005 7:03:34 AM PDT by ken21 (it takes a village to brainwash your child + to steal your property! /s)
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To: Fido969
I mean, have you met any of these women? What a piece of work they are.

I have many. You can't argue with them. It's a mix of quarter Dr.Jekyl at school and in the courtroom, Mr.Hyde back stabbing child exploiting vicious men torturing ghouls when it comes to covering up evidence in favor of women, quarter part paranoid power hungry, quarter part devil worshiper against relationship with children, quarter part bipolar fantasy gay welfare addicted matchmaker pimp advocate between women,their children and town thugs or even radical chic terrorist sympathizers.

17 posted on 07/17/2005 7:03:46 AM PDT by JudgemAll (Condemn me, make me naked and kill me, or be silent for ever on my gun ownership and law enforcement)
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To: PeterPrinciple
What ever happened to all are equal?

All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others.*
Napoleon the pig from George Orwell's Animal Farm

18 posted on 07/17/2005 7:18:13 AM PDT by metalurgist (Death to the democrats! They're almost the same as communists, they just move a little slower.)
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To: JudgemAll


Hmmm... You HAVE met these women.


19 posted on 07/17/2005 7:21:32 AM PDT by Fido969 ("The story is true" - Dan Rather)
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To: FreeManDC
I have two sons and my advice to them is to be very, very careful with women and marriage. Stay away from women that are into "feminism". For not only will they see you as their oppressor, but they will probably have homosexual leanings. A good amount of feminists are either bisexual or out and out lesbians.

As well, stay away from women who have no intention of, or have no desire to, work and contribute to the family income. For they will feel entitled to share in your wealth and will assume no fiscal responsibility of their own while expecting you, the man, to always provide. Now that's not to say that the woman shouldn't take a break from her career and stay home when the kids are little. But if the woman is expecting a lifetime of sitting on the couch watching soap operas and eating bon-bons while you slave away at the daily grind, stay far, far away.

20 posted on 07/17/2005 7:31:22 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (Need a Waffle House in Massachusetts)
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