Just kidding. Not everybody is cut out for a white-trash wedding.
I really think most uptight couples spend more time planning their weddings than they do planning their marriage.
Any type of wedding or reception is fine if it's what you want, and if the guests know what to expect. I have no problem with hamburgers and beer at the park, or in the back yard - just want to know in advance so I wear something washable.
couples spend more time planning their weddings than they do planning their marriage
I think that's often true. I've known more than one couple who were divorced before the bills from the wedding were paid.