We'll put you down for the "Kill Terri With A Smile" Crowd.
I guess I spoke too soon.
I'm tempted to point out the inadequate intellect you must possess to be unable to see possibilities beyond the false dilemma you have constructed, but I won't.
Instead, I'll say that I find it repulsive that you would call for a military coup to thwart the government of one of the states of our republic--that had made due-process judicial proceedings on legislation passed by a legitimately elected assembly of representatives of the people.
Might I suggest an alternative? If you don't like the fact that marriage is respected and believe parents should be able to meddle in their adult children's affairs, push for legislation to support it. If you don't like the method of guardian appointment for the incapacitated, push for legally changing it. If you don't like our Constitution and its protections, then push for changing it within the means that are provided.
But please don't continue to advocate an assault on the bodies of our republic.