They deserve better in life but it's no shock to me that so many meet such disasters. They live as if they are Pollyanna in Never-never Land, with Prince Charming always at the ready to save them from any problems.
Sorry, but THAT'S the harsh truth.
It's my guess, an educated one, I bet, that SOMEwere, SOMEhow, drugs and alcohol were invoved. That often spells doom with young women, a.k.a. "girls," no matter where they are.
IIRC her friends from school have basically acknowledged that there was a lot of drinking going on, and drugs are very easy to come by in Aruba.
Very few people, let alone most girls, care about the PC use of the women, girls thing. Your evocation of it tells me you are probably a Dem or worse.(yes, people can get worse than being a dem, look at hillary). Girls is a term commonly used, even by, wait for it, girls. If you don't like it, don't use it, if you don't like it being used for you, if you are a girl, then crab about that. Don't take people to task for using it for people other than yourself. I hate PC about as much as anything in this world. It is a sign of communism, socialism, progressive BS, freedom of speech means just that and when you try to "correct" someone you are guilty of trying to supress free speech.