[Fawn]

I don't consider fat men actors as distinguished. I look at them and I see sweat and smell...and I feel sorry for them. They all have bad knees too....
That's another thing that really bothers me about most fat people.....their health....it costs us all.

[cyborg]

You may not but dominant society does. I think it's a part of the differences between men and woman. Women will forever have the burden of maintaining their appearance. It's a double standard imho but it's a fact of life I think. My mom has already lectured me about looking good for my husband and waking up before he does so he doesn't wake up to a horrible looking wife.