Is it even possible for a woman to be fat because she's enjoying her life?
A little bit of pudge, yes... after 30 some women just start carrying more weight every year... I was always thin when I was young, and I ate what I want. I enjoy meat and milk and buttered bread, the diet of a hobbit, and I admit, I have started to ~look~ more and more like a hobbit every year. But beyond a little pudge and you're no longer just happy about it, it affects all of life to have that fat in the way, it affects your ability to be active, and it affects how sexy you can feel with your husband.
So, my standard anymore is not to be thin as I was in college, but I'd like to look better on a horse, and feel better about being sexy. My husband doesn't mind me.... we've only been married a year, and he didn't know me thin, but I mind.