IIRC, if the picture that used to be on your 'about page' was of you, then you have no self-abusing to do. You look fine.
Me, on the other hand...
Post your pic and let me evaluate :-)
If the one that is on there now is her, then I'll shoot her if she displays any more self-consciousness! But I have a feeling it isn't. She talks too real. ;~D
If there's one thing in life I find the most irritating and insulting, it's thin women who tell ~ME~ about their diet issues.